Friday, April 16, 2010
Salute to Dr. David Walker
He was one of my heroes in life...a wonderful friend, colleague, teacher - how does one remember such a powerful force like David? His website for his Church shows a welcome video from him...he was just a darling to me.
One of his most powerful lessons was one in which he discussed time, and since time is a stresser for many people you may really appreciate the lesson: it is NEVER about time, it is about consciousness. So, I created this affirmation for this: I make best use of my consciousness every day.
If I do that, I will never regret or feel guilty or stressed about my day - I did the best with my consciousness and that is good enough for me...BTW, the name of his book is: You are Enough - get it, read, it honor it, and be it...it is the best that we can do to honor his life.
thanks David...for all the memories...mel
Monday, November 2, 2009
One Thing at a Time....Less Stress
Focus - Choose One, Master It, Move On
In his book, "Getting Things Done," David Allen suggests you create a list of "Areas of Focus." Start by looking at the areas you manage in your your personal life or business life. In business you may have these areas: marketing, customer contact, product/service development, operations/administration, strategic planning, IT development, etc. What are the areas in your personal life? Relationships, home, community activities, political causes, etc.
Next, list all your possible projects in your personal and your business life. Be sure to list them all.
Once you have your full projects list, look them over and ask yourself (these are from passionforbusiness.com):
1. Which project will most likely lead me towards my large business goals?
2. Which project will lead me in the direction I want to take for my business?
3. Which project am I ready to tackle now?
4. Which project inspires me? (cool--this is a big clue)
5. Which project scares me? (reflect on why)
Then choose one project that will have the biggest impact for your success. Picking only one reduces any stress you might have about being overwhelmed.
Remember, you don't have to focus on one thing for an entire year. Try it for one week, three months or six months. That is more manageable... and don't throw away the list - you will still do them, just not now. Then, see what results you are getting...see how it feels.
Then, once you complete a project, then you can joyfully move on to the next one on your list. In this way, you can have BOTH things in your life: a successful personal and business life...and develop your system of getting multiple things done in a deliberately effective way.
First, choose one project. Finish it. Then move on to the next.
